How to be a great dad and not be like an absent father figure

By Ishwi Singh  |  First Published Jun 16, 2024, 4:25 PM IST

Embracing fatherhood can be a challenging journey. Growing up, if you didn’t receive the same level of love from your father as you did from your mother, you have the opportunity to bring about a change by becoming a nurturing and devoted father to your children. Let’s learn what qualities make a dad just as great as a mom.

Becoming a great dad isn't just about being present physically, it's about being emotionally available, supportive, and involved in your children's lives. Mothers are often seen putting in more effort in being a great parent whereas some fathers choose not to be as involved.

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Growing up, if you didn’t receive the same level of love from your father as you did from your mother, you have the opportunity to bring about a change by becoming a nurturing and devoted father to your children. Let’s learn what qualities make a dad just as great as a mom. 

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Being there for your kids

Always be emotionally available for your kids. No matter how busy your schedule gets, always take out time for your family. Take an active interest in your children's education and personal growth.

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Attend parent-teacher meetings, help with homework, and encourage your child's interests and talents. Spend quality time with them regularly, engage in activities they enjoy, and create meaningful memories together. 

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Become a good listener

Even if your child does not know how to express themselves openly, be gentle towards them and listen attentively to what they have to say. Always show empathy and encourage open dialogue. This will make your child feel valued and understood. 

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Provide support

Just telling your kids you love them is not enough. Show them you love them by providing support and encouragement. Show your love regardless of their successes or failures. Give them your unconditional support and always praise their little efforts as it will boost their confidence. 

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Be a good example

Children learn by observing their elders. Be a positive role model by showing integrity, responsibility, and kindness in your interactions with others. Your behaviour shapes their values and attitudes towards life.

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Your bond with your child determines what kind of a person they would become in future. Teach them discipline, boundaries and responsibilities by engaging in simple activities daily.

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